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Sometimes Thankfulness Comes in the Stillness

Thanksgiving break, a three-day reprieve from classes and practices (unless there is a game Saturday) used to be filled with packing and cleaning and traveling and extended family. But the year I spent throwing up in the middle of the night from exhaustion put an end to our Thanksgiving travels. It was a hard decision,…

When Grief Gets in the Way of Thanksgiving

November is a time for pumpkin pie, turkey, A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving, kiddos dressed up as pilgrims and Indians, and family get-togethers galore. Or, as I call it, stress. Pure whack-my head-against-a wall-throw-myself-on-the floor-and-assume-a-fetal-position stress. Yes—where most people are thrilled beyond words to begin the holiday season, I am going to be flat-out honest: there…

You Can’t Make Everyone Happy, and It’s Ok

Raise your hand if you ever find yourself trying to “make everyone happy.” Yeah, I thought so. Me too. And while this tendency can, I am sure, strike men, anecdotally it seems more prevalent among women. It also might be probable possible that mothers tend to pass this curse inclination on to their daughters. I’m…