The season of fabulous feasting—days filled with savory meals, second helpings, and leftovers—is upon us. But especially for women, a tension exists between the excitement and joy of being with loved ones and the work and preparation. I vividly recall my grandma hard at work in her kitchen, making the most delicious holiday dishes. Years…
I approached Thanksgiving two years ago feeling less than thankful. With a body dematerializing before everyone’s eyes for reasons no one could diagnose, I entered the season sick, exhausted, and scared. I could barely get up most days, and when I did, it seemed everyone was posting their “What I’m thankful for” on Facebook. It…
Christmas has always been the favorite holiday in my family. Christmas morning at our house, post-Christmas gatherings with the extended family—we like to drag it out for as long as possible. But Thanksgiving is a pretty close second. I remember getting up early on Thanksgiving mornings to gather with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. We…
“Shake it off.” ~ Taylor Swift I don’t know if you’ve ever had bad vibes from someone, but I’m guessing you have. It happens. It could be over a big thing or a little thing. The other person takes something you say the wrong way. Or maybe someone says something hurtful to you. It’s…
Once upon a time I was infertile. For years I struggled to find my place, my “tribe” if you will, and I did find it at last. I found support online, and I found it through a Support Group I helped start at my church. I felt scaffolded by the other women who were trudging…
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. (Lamentations 3:22–23 ESV) When we’ve come to the end of ourselves, it’s a relief to know God’s mercies are new every morning. I’ve even heard friends lament, “I really screwed up…