The Winter Season

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens. (Ecclesiastes 3:1 NIV)

We all experience seasons in our lives, seasons of joy and resurrection but also of struggle and death. Those latter “winter” seasons are challenging. We draw ourselves inward for protection and warmth. We believe that we possess nothing of value to give ourselves or to others. We limp along slowly, hoping to stay upright until spring finally breaks.

Sometimes a winter season comes as a result of continuing to hold on to something God has asked us to release. Perhaps we’re holding on to a long-held dream on which we have a death grasp—a dream job, a spouse we haven’t found, a relationship long past its prime, or a habit that does more harm than good.

When I was a senior in college, I was dating a man who I believed would be my husband. During my final semester of school, though, something about our relationship didn’t feel right in my spirit. Through a series of events, I realized that God was asking me to let go of the relationship. I wrestled with him for some time about this; I didn’t want to turn it over to God because I was afraid of losing something so important to me. Finally, I acknowledged that God was asking me to trust him with all areas of my life, including my relationships. I had to determine which was more important, God or my desires. I reluctantly but ultimately submitted my desires to God. I chose to trust that he had my best interests in mind. It was hard, and it hurt. I didn’t know what would come from letting go, and it was scary.

God used this act of surrender to change my heart and correct misconceptions I’d held. He also ultimately resurrected the relationship to something better than it had been. I still hate the pain and difficulty endured by both of us, but I’m grateful for this personal experience of God’s faithfulness, trustworthiness, and redemption.

I know not all stories end the way mine did, but I still believe God is seeking your best and will do a great work in your life if you will surrender everything to him. He created you. He knows what he’s doing. He loves you deeply and wants to redeem every part of you and your life.

We grow most when we’re in his refining fire. He will remove the impurities so that we’ll be stronger and shine more brilliantly. Our endurance and steadfastness may be a beacon to others who are also struggling with what God is asking them to do. If they see someone else faithfully submitting to God, it may give them hope that God will do a great work in them and provide them with the courage to say yes to whatever he’s asking.

Your faithfulness and obedience are an encouragement to those around you. People are watching you. Remember that our God is good. He loves you. He will protect you and sustain you. He is for you, not against you. He has wonderful plans for you. He can redeem all things and restore all things. Giving him your plans, hopes, and dreams allows him to work unimpeded and will bring about the abundant life he created you for and desires for you.

Lord, we are so grateful you’re in control. Sometimes we’re hesitant to submit parts of our lives to you because we’re afraid that we won’t get what we want or that you aren’t trustworthy. We’re afraid of pain and disappointment. Protect us from the lies of the Enemy, who tries to tell us you’re not good or loving or faithful. You are all those things and more. Remind us of your past faithfulness, and give us courage to let go of anything you’re asking us to give to you. Infuse us with trust and hope and give us the endurance to remain steadfast through hard times so we can see the new things you produce in us. May your will be good purposes come to fruition in our lives. Amen.

Scripture for Reflection

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5–6 NIV)

The Lord is righteous in all his ways and faithful in all he does. (Psalm 145:17 NIV)

We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28 NIV)

Reach for More

What is God asking you to release? What keeps you from obeying him? Will you trust that he can provide something better than what you’re holding on to? Give it to him and see what amazing things he does with your faithfulness!

Megan Byrd is an author, blogger, and SAHM. She lives with her husband, two children, and cat in Georgia. Megan likes to read, travel, exercise, attend cultural events, and learn. She blogs at meganbyrd.net.