Devotion: Make Kindness Your Mantra

“Hearts don’t break around here.” ~Ed Sheeran, singer/songwriter

During spring break I was poolside, soaking in the sun and feeling happy to have a good pair of sunglasses and an engaging book. Sunny music interwove itself with my good feelings, courtesy of my daughter’s newly created spring break playlist. The songs ebbed and flowed around me, largely unnoticed until a certain lyric emerged out of the fluff. The singer crooned, “Hearts don’t break around here,” and I had an epiphany.

That’s what I want! When people look at me, I want them to see kindness swirling about me like Pig-Pen’s dirt cloud from the cartoon “Peanuts.” I want my heart to create a force field of safety that protects the hearts of anyone who gets close to me. I want to be a giant, walking source of comfort and healing. I want kindness and care to radiate from me like a soothing balm.

I think it’s clear that being a “hearts don’t break around here” person is also what God wants for me. His Word encourages his people to behave this way from beginning to end. It seems this kind of living was his goal for me all along. The Garden of Eden is a clue that extreme kindness was the original plan. God put two naked people in the garden, and I’m quite sure this wasn’t evidence of poor planning on God’s part but purposeful design. His plan for us was an extreme vulnerability, body and soul. This makes sense in an environment where sin hasn’t been conceived because it’s the recipe for extreme connectedness. Life outside the garden is much different and more dangerous. But as God’s ambassadors of peace, it’s our job to reclaim bits of the garden, carry them around in our hearts, and offer them to others.

Cultivating a “kindness cloud” isn’t good only for the hearts of those around me. Studies show that being a kind, optimistic person fosters strong social and familial relationships, which in turn increases the production of hormones necessary for happiness and stress resilience. That’s healthy living! Maybe we can forget the kale and focus on kindness. Let’s add extreme kindness to our health regimen and be known as women who are safe places for the hearts placed in our care.

Scripture for Reflection

^“Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. (Colossians 3:12–17 ESV)

Reach for More

Ed Sheeran certainly isn’t a theologian, but his words are powerful when they ring in our ears. “Hearts don’t break around here” is not a wish but a firm statement of choice. Today, make this declaration to yourself: “Hearts will not break around me today!” When kindness becomes our mantra and “un-offendable” our way of being, the peace reigning in our hearts radiates around us. Daily decisions are powerful. Declare to yourself each morning that you will be a “Hearts don’t break around here” woman, and you will have taken the first step to being her.

Lori Florida’s life is all about her people. She’s convinced that being Mrs. to one and Mommy to eight will be her most significant way to serve Jesus. She wants to use her life to cheer on and coach the women coming behind her. Lori blogs at loriflorida.com.